VENUS or MARS
Who fucking knows when it comes to Women.
I am just left with the thought that we men will never understand women. I just don’t get it at all any more…not that I ever really did.
So been a single man near on 3 years & in that time I have had my fun & went out with a delightful lady for 6 months, but I will be honest I was a real assbag & that ended…& now, well lets just say, that bird has flown.
But while we are here, the way that certain women’s minds work is Gods own private mystery. I find some women so vague & non committal, no matter how vague or to the point we as men can be…or should I just say, how I can be.
I like it when it is plain & simple…straight up no messing…tell it how it is, & that way everyone knows where they are, & you can step accordingly. How ever the few of the Fairer Sex that I have been speaking to of late…wait…Fairer Sex, who named them that…ok they might be Fairer on the eye, but hell they are not all Fair that is for damn sure.
So I am being mixture of Upfront, Cavalier & Honest…& it gets me no where. YOU never know where you are & you have no idea where you are going.
Maybe I am talking to the wrong women.
What the fuck is that ?
Why do we all have to play games…straight up & confident should be the order of the day. hell if you are not interested just say so, & fuck the vagueness. But then same as we, Women do like to have someone paying them attention & someone they can keep in their Rainy Day Bag.
Anyway…fuck it, just got to carry on init.
Rant Over.

Hey there Fats,
You write a lot about women publicly, and it’s all really negative. Maybe women you meet pick up on this. Maybe they’re just not that into you. Maybe you’re looking to the wrong women. There are a millions reasons. And it depends what you’re looking for. There’s also a big contradiction in this post in that you say you were an assbag then complain when women don’t respond the way you want.
I don’t believe that men don’t understand women, you know me, you know my man. He understands me more than I understand myself sometimes. But I waited a LONG time to find him. All I can say is that it was worth the wait. And we appreciate that we’re different, maybe that’s what makes it work.
I could write an essay on this but perhaps it’s better put right over a Sailor Jerrys sometime. Everything’s always better over a Sailor Jerry
Rach
1 Dec 10 at 8:12 pm
Rachel,
I have to agree with you…it is negative & that is my experience.
I also agree that I am looking at the wrong women & perhaps yes they are not into me. After 18 years of not having to look or meet women it is a challenge for sure, also how to be out there again.
As for being an Assbag…I was in bad shape last year & was not quite ready for a relationship…too caught up in Divorce & All that Entails, so was not 100% into the relationship, & behaved badly. But have changed quite a bit since then. You 2 are lucky, & yes perhaps I am wanting things too quickly…but I am impatient : )
Sailor would be excellent.
fx
Fats Shariff
2 Dec 10 at 11:18 am
Hahaha, yes you sound impatient.
I think you should just forget about women. That’s when the right one will turn up. And she will.
Sailor soon.
Rx
Rach
2 Dec 10 at 12:17 pm